Decluttering my life.

Decluttering my life

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I have been adding to my “go away” pile for weeks now.

Question: And this question is specifically to people who are getting rid of large quantities of stuff like me:  Where do you put this stuff until you are ready to haul it all away?!?

I started my decluttering journey with just placing the items that were going away in my walk in closet.  Then when I started really understanding that I wanted to give away most of the things that were just taking up space in my house, I upgraded to a large laundry basket (after I destroyed a small one by overstuffing it).  Eventually, that laundry basket grew too small and now I pile, quite literally, all this stuff on the large landing off of my living room where my childhood piano sits and never gets played.

You guys.  This is seriously screwing with my mental happiness.  Most of the time it overflows into my living room, which hinders peaceful interaction with my family.  Also, it just makes me want to scream.  The whole point of this exercise is to make my home our sanctuary.  Where we want to be.  Piles of things that have already been deemed “the go away and never come back here again” sitting and staring me in the face isn’t working out.

I already know the answer to the question I asked.  It’s always the same answer, I have discovered.  Donate this stuff weekly.  Put it on my to do list and actually DO IT.  This is my problem:  I am an excellent planner.  I love everything about planning.  I love my planner, I love filling in the items that need to be done.  But executing them?  Yeah……

Let’s see what’s getting a new life outside of my house:

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I questioned the kids and wanted to know if they were going to be upset with their sleeping bags from more than a decade ago going to live with some other human:  No.

I cleared out one of the linen closets downstairs to make and “extra’s” section in my house for the overflow things we need to keep on hand, like shampoo and conditioner, toilet paper, and hand soap and I found two more shower curtains that I didn’t even remember keeping.  Also two king sized shams from a comforter set that I gave away about fifteen years ago. 😯 

More extras that are just taking up space.  Do you have a favorite whisk?  I obviously do and its not these two.

Have you ever used this laundry detergent before?  I used to use Arm and Hammer all the time, but with my new washing machine this stuff will just not get my clothes clean.  

More extras.  Those two knives are Chicago cutlery, but you would not believe how many times I have had wet hands and almost slices off a digit with them.  Also, my boat motor as Emeril Lagasse calls it.  I have had this one for 26 years.  I received it as a wedding present. But it doesn’t come apart and I HATE cleaning it.  So I found a new one at a yard sale Liv and I were socially distancing at for $2.00 and it makes me very happy that it goes into the dishwasher.  It’s the simple things.

More things that were just waiting to leave my house.

The always there pile of magazines that I am slowly reading my way through…..

An “extra” magazine rack, and two food savers that I apparently have as extras.  Good grief.  There is another one in my kitchen as we speak.

More extras of extras.

Parting with my dishes isn’t as painful as it once was….

Things that have never been used.

This is a perfect example of why I no longer put things in my garage to await donation day:  this has been waiting for months.

Self explanatory.

Are you decluttering?

Decluttering my life.

Decluttering my life

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How are you faring in this new world that we are living in?   Our Aunt Ginny texted me a few nights ago, just checking in on us and I told her that the staying in part of this isn’t a new thing for us.  We are serious homebodies around here.  I know that that isn’t true for most of the population though.  So I am curious about how you are keeping yourselves busy.

I made another sweep through my house to clear out more of the things that I just do not love.  They will be going into the garage to await a safe moment to send them off to their new homes.

Our Salvation Army was still open when I called last week, but I am not taking chances right now.  Denton and both of the kids have pretty serious allergies during the Spring which can lead to the use of a nebulizer at our house.  IE:  it will be fine in the garage until an unspecified time.

Let’s see what’s getting a new life outside of my house sometime in the near future:

This laundry basket has to go.  It is collapsible which is a fantastic idea, but in reality is a giant pain in the butt to use on a daily basis.

I am using more and more glass jars to store things in at my house.  So I am slowly culling out all of my Tupperware.

Remember when I kept this backpack when I went through most of my purses?  Yeah, I used this the last time Liv and I went into the city and I absolutely hated this thing.  Also, these shoes hurt my feet.  I don’t wear shoes that hurt my feet anymore.

Extras.  I always have extras of everything, don’t I?  Slowly, I am getting things down to a normal average I believe.

I finally put some pillow covers on my bed pillows that I love.  So all of these can leave now.  It can take me awhile to suss out what I truly do love….

I went through my cookbooks again.  It’s getting down to the nitty gritty and I know that I need to go through them again, but I LOVE cookbooks….

Do you use a salad spinner?  I love mine, well I love my small one.  This giant green one gets on my last nerve.  It’s just so big and my small one does the job perfectly, so why am I hoarding this one in my kitchen cabinets?

This towel rack can be filed under things that are not used by anyone in my house.  So it has to go.

The clothes.  You may need to send help.  For the past year or more I have been VERY slowly purging things from my closet.  I just cannot bring myself to KonMari my clothes.  Number one I don’t have the mental stability for it, I don’t believe.  If I took ALL of my clothes out and piled them on my bed I do believe that my brain would just freeze and it would all stay there until Denton heaved it all out of the bedroom window so that he could set it on fire to get rid of it.

So my alternative is this:  when I put something on and it feels weird, or it doesn’t fit, or I just hate the way it looks, I toss it into the white wicker go away basket that sits outside my closet.  The problem with this method is two-fold.  1.  I know there are clothes hiding inside my closet that will never see the light of day, because I will NEVER put them on my body again.  2.  When I replace those hiding clothes with things that I do wear it just adds to the chaos, constantly.  My drawers are overflowing because things I do wear won’t fit because of the ill-fitting, non-wearable stuff already in there.

With all of this excess time on my hands, I think that I will alter Marie Kondo‘s method to fit my madness.  I’ll do it a drawer at a time, for 15 minutes blocks.  That’s manageable, right?  We shall see.

Are you decluttering?